change, lack thereof

I know I'm the only reason I don't have much of a social life. The problem is that I don't see that changing anytime soon.

If I cannot envision a change, then it probably won't happen. I suppose envisioning it is the next step or something. What was that book called? Who Moved My Cheese? Great theory I suppose, but I doubt I'll apply anything I read in it.

I'm starting to pick up on that idea of how the external image influences the internal image of oneself.

I suppose I've heard all the "priceless advice", but I don't let it do me any good. Why? That question opens up a boatload of issues. Even after unraveling that onion, it still doesn't get me to change anything.